It seems appropriate that I type this up on Mom and Dad's 38th wedding anniversary. They're wonderful and are pushing strong to 40+.
I've been thinking a lot about what I've learned over the past six months of marriage. As I think back the time just blurs together from when John and I were engaged to marriage, but I've learned a lot about John, a lot about me, and a little about relationships.
So here goes:
1. Saying prayers together, reading scriptures, and weekly Family Home Evening make a huge difference. Some days we're better than others, but we have been trying really hard. It changes the mood in our house and how we interact with each other. Being in the temple together has the same peaceful feeling.
2. John loves to sing silly songs and dance around the house. Seriously. If you met him in public you'd have no idea and he'd refuse to sing or dance to anything, but he is really a Korean pop star on the inside.
3. We're so boring and such home bodies. If you reversed the clock by a year or five I was out every night, throwing parties, making new friends and about as extreme an extrovert as they come. Today... We spend most nights having dinner at home, watching tv or playing board games and getting about 4 times as much sleep as I've ever gotten in a night. I've gotten used to an average of ten hours of sleep each night - it's weird.
4. Honeymoons are among the greatest things ever invented. John and I ventured up to Niagara Falls and Toronto for an extended weekend. I persuaded John to get a couples massage. We splurged on fancy hotels and food. We took pictures like Asian tourists. It was so so wonderful! On the way back we took an afternoon in Palmyra, New York and stayed a night with John's Grandma in Utica.
5. Marriage is the most selfless and selfish thing I have ever done. I've learned more than ever that it's good to do things that make you both happy, but it's great to do the things that make your spouse happy more than yourself.
6. I'm the luckiest girl in the world. Seriously. John is even more amazing and caring than I ever imagined. He takes such good care of me.
7. John is preparing me for raising children. He acts like a kid a lot. Mostly it makes me laugh and sometimes I roll my eyes. I love him for it.
8. I've become a crazy cat lady. Einstein and Mouser keep me company all day and I love them. As much as it pains me to admit it I'm a full fledged crazy cat lady and the kittens are my babies. The only thing that helps me sleep at night is that John is way crazier in his cat-love.
9. I can't wait to have a house to decorate, a garden to plant things in and a place to have people come visit. It's amazing how quickly things change. Less than five years ago I felt queasy signing contracts for temporary subletting of rooms because I didn't know how long I would be in any one place. Now, John and I talk about where and when we want to buy our first house in the next couple years. I find myself turning on more HGTV in the background than anything else.
10. It's not all rainbows and butterflies, but I'm so happy to be married to John. I can't wait to see what the future holds.
What have you learned from your marriage? What marriage advice do you have to give?
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Loved this post and how happy you are!
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